No spark keep dating
It’s an entirely natural part of settling into a relationship; the initial honeymoon period fades and what was intense and exciting becomes calmer and placid.
That initial rush of passion that had you banging out on every flat surface in the house and made every vaguely empty space a potential fuckstop starts to wane and you’re finding yourselves passing on fucking like greased weasels on meth in exchange for catching up on Almost Human and getting an early night’s sleep and the dawning realization that you have become everything you swore you never would.
Working On Yourself Revitalizing Romance Reflecting on the Past Community Q&A The initial passion and spark of an early relationship can sometimes dampen over time.
There are things you can do to get that spark back if things are diminishing.
before you head home with your honey and tear each other’s clothes off.
Part of the thrill of new relationship energy is the novelty of getting to know one another; there are always new and intriguing layers to uncover when you’re just starting out as a couple.
The death of passion in a long-term relationship is one of the biggest killers of relationships because we associate it with being bored.
Other options might include taking a girls (or guy’s) night out to go party and flirt with strangers, a trip to a strip club or even social dancing where switching partners is expected (such as in swing dancing) can get you charged up…Of course, open relationships and polyamory aren’t for everyone, nor are they inherently any better or worse than traditional monogamy.